I had a short chat with Y & R yesterday. I know one of them is running low in love units. fellowship with him over dinner recently… looks like we need to fill them before they become empty. yesterday when talking to R, she seems to be running low too. told me she in need of a break and is in UCC condition. i thought she talking about any area in her life under compromise. but it was Urgent Counseling Case. Man… what happen to them?
I talked to baby last night, I really felt that each and everyone of us needs to be responsible for the life we live. Too much of everything is not going to help at all. We need to have a balanced lifestyle, time for work / study, time for play, time to serve God, a time for everything.
You can’t live a life trying to do everything or what people expects of you and neglect your own personal life, your walk with God, your close ones, your emotional tank (deposits of love units), etc. Please be a good steward of the life that God has blessed you with. If you know you need encouragement, help and other needs, please go find someone / something that can help you before it’s too late. Don’t wait till your house is on fire then buy a fire extinguisher to keep at home.
God has been gracious to me. He helped me learn to balance my life right from the start. When I was attached with baby, my life revolved around her, we just spend hours together. but my studies failed. wake up call!!! i learnt to balance between relationship, studies and my part time job. later there was a new insertion into my life… Security Ministry. Then i learnt to managed my life, studies, relationship, part time job and ministry. And when i put God first in serving Him, He helped me do it. oops, i forgot… i was the cg guitarist at that time too.
Next chapter, came National Service. i was in a cg where there were pple like me who have been thru it and encourages me along the way, i just kept serving… then came work to replace the NS… commitment became even higher. but i managed to balance everything and neglected my family (all along the way already neglect)…
Last year, my dad passed away… then realised another wake up call!!! my love ones… my family. now i’m married, need to balance my life to work, quality time with baby, family, friends, ministry, cg…
there are so much commitments, but so little time. But i Thank God that He helped me along the way, revealing the things that i must look in to as i mature as a person and as responsibilities grows.
